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The apology for the action "NO". 7/30/2011
A few years ago I was an apartment maintenance manager with
the ability to use empties during the day as I would be cleaning
or rebuilding them. I met a guy online at squirt and told
him that I fix and repair apartment units and gave him the
address. While working on one unit during my lunch he called
me and asked if we could meet and I said sure thing.
He never told me he was uncut. I ...
2 Comments, 299 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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Try not to offend. 5/24/2008
(photo hardreed]When guys find me attractive
to them, I try always to be kind, even when they are not my
ideal. Many friends that I have today, are my friends because
I took time to look beyond my first impression of them, and
found a great guy. However this is only my personal opinion,
but it works for me. _Reid ...
2 Comments, 193 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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How do I say no? 4/17/2008
What way is the best way to say no and not offend someone?
1 Comments, 124 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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No Thanks? 8/10/2007
Why is it people generally don't like to come straihght
to the point and if they're not interested in meeting
just say so? I have on several occasions spent hours on line
chatting and making arrangements to meet. When towards
the end of the conversation either find the other person
starts making ridiculous excuses or even worse doesn't
turn up. Is it just me who experiences these timewasters ...
4 Comments, 120 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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No, Thank You.... 3/13/2007
My names Genisse Piyama Stark...or that was the name I gave
myself when I finally had the tight young-looking body
and face I wanted along with a round butt that jutted out
deliciously and a pair of new c-cups that sported my huge
nipples very enticingly. If it wasn't for my cock I
would make any girl jealous!!! I'm a 5'7",
slim, tight-bodied, caramel-brown-skinned lady-boy
with short, Auburn, ...
2 Comments, 275 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Listing. 1/25/2007
dear freind when some elder person order us we does need
to ful fill the order and we must need to listing the voice
of the older men it is a good thing if u take this thing easily
u will never face difficulties in ur life got is friends.
Thanks u .
2 Comments, 106 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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4 is a crowd 12/29/2006
I had met a couple who wanted a bi man to play with.The man's
wife liked to take some pics and would occasionally join
us.I was cool with the set up and did not mind being on film.I
got a call from my friends one day asking if I was free that
weekend for some fun.I told them Saturday afternoon was
the only time I had.After some discussion it was arranged
for us to meet at a local motel.I ...
4 Comments, 545 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Sometimes... 11/5/2006
Does anyone really think they should be polite or rude when
saying no thanks?
3 Comments, 113 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Why are some people incapable of saying "No, thanks"? 9/23/2006
Since when is it cooler to say "ok, we'll talk
tomorow" and then disappear forever? Isn't
that at least rude? Have the guts and say it when you are not
-or no longer- interested! Or you can always use an excuse-
you know, like "my cat passed away" or something,
but just say something!
3 Comments, 99 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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You Just Don't Do It. 8/30/2006
You Don't Say NO! Unless
They Have An STD. Then You Can Say No....
4 Comments, 211 Views,
10 Votes
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Why? 7/15/2006
Do you wonder why you feel guilty when you say 'NO'.
Or do you really only say 'no' timidly or even 'well,
no or --stammer, stammer--.
The reasons can be varied and complicated but you need results
not psychoanalyzing right?
So try this and you will see it works.
First of all remember you have a 'right to say NO":
perfect and simple.
1) practice That's right; like any new habit it ...
0 Comments, 95 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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Beware 7/3/2006
I was recently a member on an all male site and two weeks ago
started to receive rather strange notes from some guy I
had never met. He called me all kinds of wierd things like
"granpa" (I am one). And "You ain't
Southern". Never said I was. I live in Denver. OK now
here's the scary part. He repeatedly sent me mail of
all kinds of put-downs. But then he called me by my full name
(last name ...
1 Comments, 603 Views,
24 Votes
,5.63 Score
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how do u do it without hurting a persons feelings 5/30/2006
why is it when u tell some one ur not interested they get all
mad? how do you say where they wont get mad? (i mean i dont
want to hurt egos but hell dont get mad at me for saying..)
7 Comments, 269 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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THANKS ,BUT NO THANKS .( I THINK ) 1/30/2006
I'M A . I MUST BE. I FIND IT NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE TO
SAY NO THANKS WHEN I'M BEING PURSUED BY A HOT GUY.IT'S
NOT EVEN THAT I FIND THAT IN ITSELF THAT STRANGE. I HAVE SLEPT
WITH GUYS WHO WERE CUTE BUT REALLY HELD NO INTEREST FOR ME.WHY
? AM I DOING IT JUST TO BE POLITE ? IS THERE SOME PART OF ME TRYING
TO MAKE ALL THESE LONESOME GUYS FEEL SPECIAL? IS IT MY EGO
GETTING THE BEST OF ME TO THE POINT ...
0 Comments, 272 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score
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"I Say" "You Say" .... 1/20/2006
Here's how I handle the problem of not being interested
should I get to the point with someone where we meet face
to face.
<br>
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Before we meet up, I tell them I have a policy that should
I not be interested in them physicallly, I'm going
to be honest up front. And that I will not be offended nor
should they feel it it akward if they should find themselves
not attracted to me ...
0 Comments, 233 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Whats wrong with me? 1/6/2006
Recently I was in a relation that didnt last very long and
I knew it wouldnt. I broke it off with him and have been single
ever since. The relationship before that was like 2 years
ago. I havent had sex since then and If I really like the guy
I usually hold off until the big "L" word comes
to play. The moral of the story is, I find myself turning
down every open oppurtunity to date a guy ...
4 Comments, 378 Views,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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interested? 12/17/2005
Why dont people say there not interested if there not, instead
of the countless emails that end up goin nowhere....
0 Comments, 182 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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ugly hair missing teeth 11/30/2005
i met up with a guy once who shared a pic of himself with me
and he looked like a stud......i met him and he weighed atleast
300 pounds...hadent shaved in days reeked like stale alcohol
and cigar smoke...and his teeth were rotting away....all
i could say was "you twisted fucker...why would you
mislead me?? and expect me to do anything with your ugly
ass??
0 Comments, 427 Views,
22 Votes
,6.13 Score
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feelings 10/22/2005
Why is it some cannot take no thanks for an answer. I am not
a judgemental person but still I do have standards and stick
by them. Nonetheless some cannot accept your no and keep
pestering you till you have no choice but to either ignore
or be nasty about it. Surely there must be an easier way to
get your point across.
0 Comments, 460 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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no thanks then why be here 7/16/2005
i know alot of the people are here to meet people and have
a good time. but why say no thanks when you find out they are
a little on the big side. big people need attention to. i
am not saying we should meet everyone but talk to the people
and get to know them, before saying no thanks.
1 Comments, 690 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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I wont let his wife watch us, whats your expereince on this? 7/5/2005
I've being having an affair with one guy in particular
on a regular basis and he continually asks me to do it with
him in front of his wife. Everytime he asks I have to remind
him that I'm not up for that kind of thing. I tell him
if its with another guy yeah thats kewl but not a chic. His
wife knows of me but she doesnt know we're meeting and
they're into 3somes, but they're not allowed ...
10 Comments, 1323 Views,
29 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Cut or Uncut - The debate! 4/27/2005
This is all a personal stance I know. Personally I LOVE a
big foreskin. It's the one thing I get really disappointed
with by american guys especially. Hardly any have a skin!
And depending how severly they've been cut can cause
realy problems if you're trying to wank off a guy with
nothing there. You need, spit, lube for gods sake I've
used margerine and butter!!! Not for anal of course. ...
5 Comments, 665 Views,
36 Votes
,4.96 Score
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snooker balls 4/21/2005
I was just beginning to change , from the passage of
to .
suddenly I was getting wet dreams . although I did not know
what they were at the time .
I was getting pubic hair round my balls and dick .
I was getting erections at the least change in the wind ,
never mind looking up a girls skirt .
I was also smoking , then there was the snooker hall .
since I was wearing long trousers ...
1 Comments, 593 Views,
21 Votes
,3.00 Score
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If you aren't interested in somebody... 4/19/2005
say "no thanks" why is that so hard? "Sparing
someone's feelings" is just toying with somone's
feelings by going along and going along and going along
until you're so fed up that it blows up? That would be
devastating! it's better to be honest and pull the
bandaid off quick--it hurts for a minute but you get over
it quicker and you dont have all the mess to clean up afterwards.
All in all ...
1 Comments, 262 Views,
16 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Am in a situation now where i need to say no 3/14/2005
I have met a guy online and we have had some cam-2-cam. We
exchanged phone #'s and now he calls several times
a day. We have not met, but I am no longer interested in him.
I discovered he is on medication for a nervous condition
and was hospitalized for not taking it last month. He is
on permanent work disability because of this disorder.
I want to let him down, but not crash. What do ...
4 Comments, 872 Views,
25 Votes
,4.57 Score
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70! 1/31/2005
Hiya, to is mainly about an expereience i had, i was on a dating
service and this 72 yr old man was very interested in me.
<br>
Somehow he found my email address and kept emailing me 15
times a day. this man was obesessed with me.
in the end i changed my email address and i cheacked the old
email the other month and i had 75 emails.
<br>
It was a wierd experience and would ...
3 Comments, 747 Views,
20 Votes
,2.10 Score
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No thanks without Pain 1/29/2005
How do you say "no thanks" without causing pain.
This is a tough one however you have to be honest with the
person but be kind and gentle. I don't believe in being
belligerant by screaming, "you are not who you said
you were" you have to politely say, "for me,
I had a different picture of who you were in my mind".
Then explain what your perception of this date was supposed
to be and ...
0 Comments, 241 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score
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no 1/7/2005
I think it is hard to say no to someone. If they aren't
what you are looking for, it's a must. I hope to know
the guy pretty well before we meet. If I had to say no face
to face, that would really be hard.
0 Comments, 232 Views,
15 Votes
,2.06 Score
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Don't KNow what to Say 12/20/2004
When someone emails me that I am not interested in and I respond
politely, they end up being offended and rude no matter
how polite I am. We are all adults on the site (that is old
enough to be here), but some guys are very childish when
being told "no thanks". If some tells me that,
then that is that. I do not respond with insults, for many
of them aren't interested for age or distance ...
6 Comments, 607 Views,
56 Votes
,7.36 Score
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Tried to say no 12/17/2004
This actually happened to me, though it was a while ago back
in the cruising days. I had been cruising this local gay
area and got picked up by this handsome guy, he wasn't
American and spoke very little English. My biggest mistake
was getting into his car and leaving with him. Ok, so your
saying how did that work out if he didn't speak much
English. He whipped it out showing me a fat 8 1/2 ...
1 Comments, 1063 Views,
52 Votes
,4.46 Score
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Is Education Worth It? 12/6/2004
This will sound like a story from a hollywood movie. I was
20, and needed money for college. I had just moved from Minnesota
to California. The college required me to pay $4000 out
of state tuition per semester. In addition to buying books,
paying for my car, car insurance, and my daily expenses.
My tab came out to about $15000 a year.
I looked for a job, and found one at the ...
1 Comments, 734 Views,
34 Votes
,5.31 Score
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Why? 11/25/2004
I recently went on a trip to San Francisco, and walked through
the cradle of Global Gayness (the Castro). As I walked through
this sacred realm of homosexuality, I felt as if I did not
belong. With its obviously "alternative"
choice in lifestyle, and decorum. Rainbow flags waving
proudly. Men walking down the street with their asses literally
hanging out. I began to question the point ...
4 Comments, 715 Views,
50 Votes
,7.92 Score
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how do u say no without hurting somones feelings 10/28/2004
how do u turn someond down without hurting them? i tried
im not interested. i tried sorry your not my type. what is
a best phrase to use
0 Comments, 216 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Way too big 9/19/2004
I met this guy through a friend of mine and we hit it off immediately.We
talked for a while and soon got close.He invited me home
and I accepted.We discussed our preferences in bed and
he said that he really wanted to be inside me and I accepted
his offer, being a willing bottom.He stressed almost
too much how he wanted my ass, but I just passed this off
as enthusiasm.I had been into anal ...
0 Comments, 1007 Views,
100 Votes
,7.55 Score
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Anal stimulation can cause orgasm 9/5/2004
I`ve been a frequent masturbator since I was very young
and started at a very young age inserting fingers or objects
into my ass. I still frequently masturbate and often use
toys for stimulation. I have only had one experience with
another man and that was years ago. And unfortunately he
lacked good skills and equipment, but I was so horny for
it at the time I eagerly allowed the ...
3 Comments, 513 Views,
52 Votes
,5.75 Score
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protest too much? 6/8/2004
It seems like all the people that are claiming that they
were "" don't mention anything helpful
or say how they pressed charges, etc. I know that there is
an "embarassment" factor, but sometimes one
has to look at what is best for others.
0 Comments, 139 Views,
18 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Manners and Tact? Dealing with rejection! 5/21/2004
All of us are on this site and online in general for various
reasons. Some are looking for sex, others maybe a relationship
and others just to relieve boredom. One thing that I have
noticed in some chat rooms with guys are that how angry and
childish they get at times, especially when you tell them
that you are not interested for whatever reason!
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If a young guy gets hit on ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
38 Votes
,7.39 Score
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concerns over detention of alleged gays in EGYPT 4/4/2004
Amnesty International is gravely concernsd about the
ongoing detention of scores of men in EGYPT in connection
with their sexual orientation.Then also facing a heigtened
risk of torture in police staionand prison , I was in egypt
before I come to U S A the land of freedom , not based on relgion
Egypt have 3 relgions christians, mouslem , jew so the
proplem is the people , the goverment ...
0 Comments, 114 Views,
25 Votes
,4.46 Score
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I need a younger guy! 11/13/2002
I have known about This Outpersonals for quite a while.
What I really do not understand is why do I pick up other guys
that are 2wice the age as I am? I am only 22 years old, and this
one guy Emailed me. He was 44 yrs old. I mean seriously, why
do some people think that younger guys will need an older
guy?? I am new at this, so I need to take things slower than
some other people that ...
2 Comments, 540 Views,
251 Votes
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